I have not had the opportunity to be a stay at home mom. I am lucky that I have a job that I enjoy most of the times. I love that I get to work half time and then get to come home and spend the rest of the day with my wonderful children. One of the hardest things is finding a reliable babysitter that you trust. I have had 7 sitters so far. (to me that is alot) Some have been good some not so great. The one I have now we have really liked up until now.
She first decided to raise her rates. I was ok with this and went up to the higher price because I liked her and she was doing a good job. Part of our agreement was that she would provide lunch for the kids. She has now decided that she doesn't want to provide lunch for them that she wants me to provide any food that they eat while at her house. I wasn't really happy about this but I decided that I would do this too.
Her child got Croop. This is the 2nd time that he has had it this year. The first time he got he gave it to Garrett. She called and told me he had croop so I decided to keep my kids home to be on the safe side. This was friday. On Monday I took the kids back to her house. By this tme my kids had developed colds. (That they probably got from her kids) I took them again on Tuesday. Garrett's cold had gotten worse I had taken him to the doctor but they said that it was just a cold.
She called me at 9 o'clock at night and told me that since Garrett had a cold that she did not want him at her house. I told her that he was feeling better and that he had been happy she still didn't want him. She then said her kids were getting sick too often so when my kids had colds that I couldn't bring them. I told her that I can't take off work everytime one of my kids gets the sniffles. She then told me that I just wasn't as concerned about them.
This really hurt my feelings
. I am concerned about my children but I also have a job that I have to have to help my family. I had to find another person to watch them for that day. This isn't easy. This makes the 4th time this month that I have had to find someone else to watch them for one reason or other.
I was so upset. I am still upset.
Now I am thinking that I need to find a new sitter. But I don't have someone to ask. I tried one lady I know but she is already full. I don't want to take them to big daycare center. I just don't know what to do.
Babysitter problems are the worst!!!!
I just needed to vent and then maybe a solution would come to my mind.